Dirty talking makes sex sexier.

People concentrate on a lot of things during sex. Caressing, teasing, licking and so on are a part of turning on your partner. But how many of us seriously concentrate on talking. While looking for an answer to this logical question a sex survey was conducted on a sample of 500 people. Out of which 45% of respondents are male and 55% of respondents are female. Surprisingly a whopping 48% of respondents said that they enjoyed talking during sex and 45% of respondents have role played during sex. This survey was conducted by the Gazette Newspaper.

On further investigation when these 48% people were asked about the dirtiest things they have spoken to the partner, they said, “Why does everyone ask if I’m a virgin?,” “You feel like sour cream,” “I’m hungry,” “I wish you could skull fuck me,” and many such hilarious, dirty, sexy and nasty talks. The main idea behind talking during sex is to make the love making hotter and steamier than it usually is. So dirty talking does not really mean talking dirty. One can talk nasty that could be sexually arousing with being offensive. It’s just an art that most of us need to master. It’s healthy and according to sex therapists it’s one of the best things we can use to enhance love making.

From the abstract:

Lot of people believe that it’s not what you say that makes the difference but how you say it. One needs to focus their mind on how much they enjoy sex and what they like about it. The survey does prove that people enjoy talking dirty or sexy during sex as well as like to hear it. Dirty talking boosts the heat in one’s bedroom, during sex. It can be used to turn on your partner but you need to concentrate on two aspects, firstly the content and second the delivery.

It should be a turn on for a partner who listens to it. So you need to say things which are appropriate like, talk about how good you feel when your partner makes a particular move or talk about how sexy your partner looks. Ask for a feedback about the few things you specifically do in sex that your partners likes. Prepare your tone, make it deep and soft. Small whispers in ears can be really a big turn on. At the same time ensure that you are not talking about any other emotional, political, financial or family related topic.

Talking dirty is really lot of fun but it does not come naturally. It needs a lot of practice and patience. So just work on it and be a successful flirt.

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