Women are the most adorable, lovable and trusted angels around. So fragile yet they are so headstrong. They are just awesome. I personally don’t think any woman can lie. But what’s the truth. Well being the emotional sex they are bound to lie to protect their feelings or yours. “Sometimes her motives are less laudable, like lying to cover her tracks. Whatever the case, certain lies occur much more frequently than others. It's up to you to learn the five lies all women tell, and how to handle them” (says Madeline Murphy of Askmen.com)
This is the moment to churn your brain wheels on. There are really many things they lie about. But here are 5 most common lies women tell their men. "I'm not mad at you." "I don't mind if you go to strip clubs with the boys." "I'm just not ready for a boyfriend right now." "I don't mind picking up the tab tonight; you always pay anyway." “This was fu***** great.” Yes, you would have heard this from your little angel. Sometimes it works well to read between lines and especially in these cases.
When women say that, I’m not mad at you, they mean they are mad at you. They are just being sarcastic when they do so. Have a look at the reaction on the face when they say this and you can see the irritation through. When a woman says that she does not mind you going to the club with the boys or your friends, the next thing you think of is that she is the best woman you could have ever got. Think again do they actually mean it? Well they don’t. They just don’t want to act possessive hence; they pretend to be happy with whatever you like to do. When a woman says that she does not mind paying for something, the truth is she really minds it. You better be prepared and carry enough money to pay for her. The last one is usually spoken by a woman after sex. She says this to assure you that you are great in bed, that she had the best sex ever and also had an orgasm. Whereas, this really not the truth. A woman generally tells this to make you feel good.
From the abstract:
This is very nice and true finding about women and why they lie. Women do lie at several instances just like men. They lie in order to protect themselves from their man or to protect their man’s feelings. Not all of them react in the same way but most of them do. A woman usually says that she is not mad at you, if you have forgotten her birthday or anniversary date, or if you have forgotten to call back. She says it but doesn’t really mean it. You can easily judge it by her reactions and irritation on her face. Many men like to ignore this reaction and walk away from scene. But remember that no problems are solved until discussed. So the best way to deal with this would be to discuss it and spill your heart out about how you really feel to her.
Going to clubs with friends is fun, undoubtedly. But when you are aware that women do mind it, though she is faking not to, it is wise not to go for it for the momentary pleasure that you may get out of it. But it might not be worth it for next few weeks and months to come. You might end up harming the relationship if you do go with your friends clubbing or to strip clubs. When a woman says that she is not ready for a boyfriend right now, she is saying this to reject your proposal in a subtle way. So that it does not hurt you. At this point do not react and show that you understand what she means but walk away with your dignity. And if you are really are looking for a woman for a serious or discreet relationship your easy way out is- http://www.asurething.net
When a woman says that she does not mind paying, well she means she does. Though women today are financially independent and some don’t expect favors but they still expect you to be her man and pay up. They observe your reaction after making this statement. In this case she is testing waters to understand if you are the one for her. At least at initial stages of dating and relationship do go prepared to pay up for everything.
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Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Coping With 6 Common Sex Problems
Sex time is one of the merriest times one can have. Provided the bedroom drama does not become like a chore to do. The romance, the sparks and touch can be really breathtaking if one feels like having it then and there. However, no one quite thinks about a time or moment in life when this drive just dies of or reduces. What does one do then?
Well there are several articles written on sex and sex positions but there is fever on sex problems. It’s important to know the kind of sex problems all of us do go through at certain point of our lives and also how to solve it. Most common sex problem people are going through today are unsatisfactory erections, premature ejaculation, pain, low libido, sex pain and anticlimax situation. Usually these problems indicate low-lying serious medical symptoms that need immediate attention.
Erectile problems affect more than a third of men over the age of 40, and it should not be ignored. Viagra, Livetra and Cialis can revitalize a man's sex life. It was found that “Viagra enabled 83 percent of men struggling with ED to have intercourse at least once compared with 45 percent of those taking a placebo.” Still one needs additional drugs to resort to incase of cardiovascular problems or diabetes. To a very good extent erectile dysfunction or ED is a symptom of heart trouble.
Premature ejaculation could be a biggest turn off for a man. As this can really leave a woman dissatisfied and destroy a man’s sex life. Today there are many creams and gels one can use to help cut down the sensitivity to delay the ejaculation. However, the best way to overcome this problem is to consult a sex therapist to help address the anxiety, fear, stress, guilt and depression. The best controlling mechanism lies in your brain. One can train the brain to help solve this. Orgasm or climax in a woman is another important issue that over powers sex. There are several medical factors that can limit or kill orgasm in a woman. Vaginal dryness, cysts in a woman can cause sex pain. This can completely ruin one sex life. “Even some women who can orgasm don't experience all three known types: vaginal, cervical, and clitoral.”
Hormonal changes and stress can cause lower sex drive in both young and old women.
From the abstract:
People dread to speak about their problems pertaining to sex openly. But the best way to overcome a problem is to speak, seek help and face it. A person with a good sex life reflects healthy heart and brains. Though sex looks so easy, it course is not so easy. Even smallest symptoms needs attention. ED, sex pains, low-sex drive can be solved by thirty minutes of physical exercise daily. It could be aerobics, dancing or any sport related activity that gives physical strain and exertion that helps. It is very important to be fit physically and mentally to practice an ongoing healthy sex life.
The mantra is not to ignore your health and yourself. Only if you give importance and priority to what your body need you can be free of any such problems. So listen to your body first, always. Eat healthy, sleep well and workout for 30 minutes in the day.
To know more join AST at http://www.asurething.net
Well there are several articles written on sex and sex positions but there is fever on sex problems. It’s important to know the kind of sex problems all of us do go through at certain point of our lives and also how to solve it. Most common sex problem people are going through today are unsatisfactory erections, premature ejaculation, pain, low libido, sex pain and anticlimax situation. Usually these problems indicate low-lying serious medical symptoms that need immediate attention.
Erectile problems affect more than a third of men over the age of 40, and it should not be ignored. Viagra, Livetra and Cialis can revitalize a man's sex life. It was found that “Viagra enabled 83 percent of men struggling with ED to have intercourse at least once compared with 45 percent of those taking a placebo.” Still one needs additional drugs to resort to incase of cardiovascular problems or diabetes. To a very good extent erectile dysfunction or ED is a symptom of heart trouble.
Premature ejaculation could be a biggest turn off for a man. As this can really leave a woman dissatisfied and destroy a man’s sex life. Today there are many creams and gels one can use to help cut down the sensitivity to delay the ejaculation. However, the best way to overcome this problem is to consult a sex therapist to help address the anxiety, fear, stress, guilt and depression. The best controlling mechanism lies in your brain. One can train the brain to help solve this. Orgasm or climax in a woman is another important issue that over powers sex. There are several medical factors that can limit or kill orgasm in a woman. Vaginal dryness, cysts in a woman can cause sex pain. This can completely ruin one sex life. “Even some women who can orgasm don't experience all three known types: vaginal, cervical, and clitoral.”
Hormonal changes and stress can cause lower sex drive in both young and old women.
From the abstract:
People dread to speak about their problems pertaining to sex openly. But the best way to overcome a problem is to speak, seek help and face it. A person with a good sex life reflects healthy heart and brains. Though sex looks so easy, it course is not so easy. Even smallest symptoms needs attention. ED, sex pains, low-sex drive can be solved by thirty minutes of physical exercise daily. It could be aerobics, dancing or any sport related activity that gives physical strain and exertion that helps. It is very important to be fit physically and mentally to practice an ongoing healthy sex life.
The mantra is not to ignore your health and yourself. Only if you give importance and priority to what your body need you can be free of any such problems. So listen to your body first, always. Eat healthy, sleep well and workout for 30 minutes in the day.
To know more join AST at http://www.asurething.net
Dirty talking makes sex sexier.
People concentrate on a lot of things during sex. Caressing, teasing, licking and so on are a part of turning on your partner. But how many of us seriously concentrate on talking. While looking for an answer to this logical question a sex survey was conducted on a sample of 500 people. Out of which 45% of respondents are male and 55% of respondents are female. Surprisingly a whopping 48% of respondents said that they enjoyed talking during sex and 45% of respondents have role played during sex. This survey was conducted by the Gazette Newspaper.
On further investigation when these 48% people were asked about the dirtiest things they have spoken to the partner, they said, “Why does everyone ask if I’m a virgin?,” “You feel like sour cream,” “I’m hungry,” “I wish you could skull fuck me,” and many such hilarious, dirty, sexy and nasty talks. The main idea behind talking during sex is to make the love making hotter and steamier than it usually is. So dirty talking does not really mean talking dirty. One can talk nasty that could be sexually arousing with being offensive. It’s just an art that most of us need to master. It’s healthy and according to sex therapists it’s one of the best things we can use to enhance love making.
From the abstract:
Lot of people believe that it’s not what you say that makes the difference but how you say it. One needs to focus their mind on how much they enjoy sex and what they like about it. The survey does prove that people enjoy talking dirty or sexy during sex as well as like to hear it. Dirty talking boosts the heat in one’s bedroom, during sex. It can be used to turn on your partner but you need to concentrate on two aspects, firstly the content and second the delivery.
It should be a turn on for a partner who listens to it. So you need to say things which are appropriate like, talk about how good you feel when your partner makes a particular move or talk about how sexy your partner looks. Ask for a feedback about the few things you specifically do in sex that your partners likes. Prepare your tone, make it deep and soft. Small whispers in ears can be really a big turn on. At the same time ensure that you are not talking about any other emotional, political, financial or family related topic.
Talking dirty is really lot of fun but it does not come naturally. It needs a lot of practice and patience. So just work on it and be a successful flirt.
To know more join AST at http://www.asurething.net
On further investigation when these 48% people were asked about the dirtiest things they have spoken to the partner, they said, “Why does everyone ask if I’m a virgin?,” “You feel like sour cream,” “I’m hungry,” “I wish you could skull fuck me,” and many such hilarious, dirty, sexy and nasty talks. The main idea behind talking during sex is to make the love making hotter and steamier than it usually is. So dirty talking does not really mean talking dirty. One can talk nasty that could be sexually arousing with being offensive. It’s just an art that most of us need to master. It’s healthy and according to sex therapists it’s one of the best things we can use to enhance love making.
From the abstract:
Lot of people believe that it’s not what you say that makes the difference but how you say it. One needs to focus their mind on how much they enjoy sex and what they like about it. The survey does prove that people enjoy talking dirty or sexy during sex as well as like to hear it. Dirty talking boosts the heat in one’s bedroom, during sex. It can be used to turn on your partner but you need to concentrate on two aspects, firstly the content and second the delivery.
It should be a turn on for a partner who listens to it. So you need to say things which are appropriate like, talk about how good you feel when your partner makes a particular move or talk about how sexy your partner looks. Ask for a feedback about the few things you specifically do in sex that your partners likes. Prepare your tone, make it deep and soft. Small whispers in ears can be really a big turn on. At the same time ensure that you are not talking about any other emotional, political, financial or family related topic.
Talking dirty is really lot of fun but it does not come naturally. It needs a lot of practice and patience. So just work on it and be a successful flirt.
To know more join AST at http://www.asurething.net
Seniors do it more than you'd think
Yes it’s true that seniors remain unnoticed or ignored. But nothing can kill their sex drive. The most comprehensive sex survey conducted among 57- to 85-year-olds in the United States proved that more than a quarter of those up to age 85 reported having sex in the previous year. It was found that many older people are surprisingly frisky and willing to do, and talk about, intimate acts that would make their grandchildren blush.
50% of those aged 57 to 75 said they gave or received oral sex, and so did 1/3rd of 75- to 85-year-olds.
It’s true that the sex and interest in it do fall off when people reach their 70s, and the drop-off has a lot to do with health or lack of a partner, especially for women.
“The federally funded study, done by respected scientists and published in Thursday’s New England Journal of Medicine, overturns some stereotypical notions that physical pleasure is just a young person’s game.”
“Most people assume that people stop doing it after some vague age,” said sex researcher Edward Laumann of the University of Chicago.
This survey involved two-hour face-to-face interviews with over 3000 men and women around the country. Their blood, saliva and other samples were closely examined to understand their hormone levels, sex-related infections and other health issues in future reports. “They even tested how well seniors could see, taste, hear and smell — things that affect being able to have and enjoy sex.”
It was found that Sex with a partner in the previous year was reported by 73% of people ages 57 to 64; 53% of those ages 64 to 75, and 26% of people 75 to 85.
50% of them reported at least one related problem. 37% of men had trouble with erection, 43% women had low desire, 39% suffered dryness and 34% suffered from inability to have an orgasm.
One out of seven men used Viagra or other substances to improve sex.
Only 22 % of women and 38% of men had discussed sex with a doctor since age 50. People whose health was excellent or very good were nearly twice as likely to be sexually active as those in poor or fair health.
“Sex is an important indicator of health” Georgeanne Patmios of the National Institute on Aging, the main funder of this study. Sexual problems can be a warning sign of diabetes, infections, cancer or other health woes. Untreated sex issues can lead to depression and social withdrawal, and people may even stop taking needed medications because of sexual side effects.
From the abstract:
Sex is a very important aspect of life. If you are healthy you can enjoy sex throughout your life. Some couples, even doctors don’t like to talk much about sexual dysfunction. Though it’s important to rectify this problem very few people are open minded to accept the problem and talk about solving it. Though we live in a modern society today many people just can’t imagine older people talking about sex or doing it.
The fascinating fact brought out by this research is that older people can keep their sex drive on forever, if they maintain a healthy lifestyle. Sex boosts intimacy between couples, keeps one’s heart healthy, helps each one of us to express ourselves better and live life to the maximum.
There are many online dating websites today created to provide the old, young and middle aged people full freedom to explore their sexual desires. One such site is AST – Asurething.net. With AST it’s easier to find people online, join sex clubs and sex parties.
To know more join AST at http://www.asurething.net
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