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Tuesday, July 14, 2009

First date: Women all set to Sex it up!

It’s usually a Man who makes the first move! Really! Does it stand true even today?
In “Sex and the City,” Carrie Bradshaw asks one of the great questions of our time: “In an age where women enjoy the same money and successes as men, why shouldn’t a woman be able to enjoy sex like a man?”

Well, a survey was conducted over 1000 users of online dating over a 2 months period. It was found that over 60% of the users polled that they would consider having sex on their first date. Out of which nearly 1/3rd or 33% users were sure that they would have sex on their first date if given the chance.

“Sex has become a staple of the dating world and more and more people are jumping on the band wagon.”

With changing times, people’s perceptions have changed. The research conducted in the past by ‘YouGov’ showed a completely contrasting image. In this survey it was found that 62% of respondents would prefer a nice cup of tea to sex and rest 38% of respondents said they would prefer sex over tea.
“Further studies on this have shown that women in particular have become more liberal than they were a few years ago. A study done on 740 women showed that 30% of them admitted to having sex on a first date.”
In addition to this another survey was polled on 568 women. The research found that every third woman had intimate relationship with her virtual partner on the first date. 27% of women were ready for more. They were ready for oral sex with their new partners.

Out of the 20,000 female users of online dating surveyed, 34% would wait less than one date (or six hours) before having sex with someone they'd just met.

From the Abstract:
It’s interesting and shocking at the same time to read the findings of this research. But it’s so true. Call it desperation out of loneliness, love or lust, yet it’s most enjoyable. Sex is definitely the ‘in trend’ whether one is in a relationship or not. The survey does suggest that you have a greater chance this year of having sex on your first date than you did last year. The guilt attached with the term sex is slowly fading out.
Women have come out of their shell and broken their stereotype image and role in sex. More women are now very honest about their sexual desires. Discussing or even having sex on the first date is no more subject of surprise. The label of being promiscuous does not follow any one anymore. It’s no more gender dependent.
To have sex or not have sex on the first date completely depends on one’s personal feelings towards their partner or partners. The beauty of this change is that the gap or the difference in attitude between men and women towards sex is filling up. This is both helpful in forming a steady as well an understanding relation. Some have sex for gratification and some to express their emotions. The point is everyone does have sex.

Sometimes casual and meaningless sex can also give rise to sense of attachment with your partner that you find on an online dating website like AST- A sure thing.net. Today, of course a woman can have sex like men, with or without strings. All you need to do is trust your instincts. If you feel better after having sex with your partner you can carry on with the relationship longer. Whereas if you don’t feel all that good about it, move on. You see there are no strings attached. Trust what ‘sex’ tells you always.

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So are you IN, for spicing it up?

Women are the most admirable of all species. Have you ever wondered if they are really keen in exploring the dynamics of nature’s most bestowed pleasure- SEX?
A new study has revealed the ‘kinky’ aspect of Oz women. A shocking study has found that ladies are as keen to have group sex as men. They initiate it almost as often as men.

Almost 40% of respondents reported an equal gender split in the group encounter, while a further 30% reported a majority of men taking part and 30% a majority of women.
The survey was conducted 1.5 million Australian online daters, which drew 8763 responses. Almost as many women as men instigate the idea of group sex - 46 per cent compared with 54 per cent.
“The most common reasons given for group sex are excitement, variety and to spice up long-term relationships”-The Daily Telegraph.

The most famous form of group sex liked is a threesome.
“Australian women were more sexually liberated than men. The reality is women are actively pursuing group sex. Women don’t feel judged or watched by society the way Australian men are feeling. Women’s sexuality is encouraged by the media and the men folk. Men tend to be a little bit more shy in the sex department”

From the Abstract:
The group sex is on since the days of Adam and Eve. If you feel that you are the only one who has an inclination of being in group sex, you’re not alone. There are huge number of people who try this out once in a weekend and they are mainly couples. Life is so short. One should be able to experience it without hurting other people.
This survey breaks all our earlier beliefs that women shy off from such topics. And now we all know women are more interested in it than men. There are several reasons why one enjoys group sex. It spices up a dull, boring long term relationship by creating excitement. It gives a feeling of empowerment breaking the normal society boundaries.
It may sound like one of the fetish imaginations coming true. However, the involvement of people in group sex is completely their right and their choice. No one can be dragged in it. Women by far were considered submissive to experimenting and unlocking new thrills in life. But surprisingly they are more adventurous. Caution: Do not ask a woman for her views on this on the first date.
Years of research and theory has gone behind understanding what men and women look for in it. The only appropriate conclusion is “its fun when you think its fun!”
Mostly couple join in together for group sex. They look for similar profiles on online dating site like Asurething.net. Be it swingers or singles AST – is a sure thing to give you a flight to ecstasy.
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Let’s make love not money, honey!

A survey by an online dating service shows that singles would choose love over money.
2,300 singles were surveyed about their attitudes on money and love. It was found that
95% of men and 87% of women agree that it does not matter if you make more money than the person you are dating. 87% of men and 80% of women said that they would stay in a relationship even though their partner’s had substantial credit card debt. 67% of women and 66% of men claim they have never kept financial secrets from the person they are dating. 73% of men and 68% of women feel secure in their current financial situation.
“Results show that men and women have different priorities when it comes to discussing sex or money. 29% Men rated sex as the No. 1 topic, followed by ‘nothing’ at 22%, with money in third place at 21 percent. Women put money talk in the top spot at 33 % followed by: nothing at 29 percent, marriage at 16 percent and sex ranking fourth at 15 percent.” (Reuters.com)

In a tapering economy it’s encouraging to see the progress couples have made in communicating about their financial situation." The topic of money can be very emotional and sensitive. During any stage of one’s relationship, money serves as a crucial issue to discuss. “
Dating or Bust, We Aren't Scared of a Recession. In good times or bad, search for love continues. The survey also showed that 20 percent of women and 23 percent of men said they plan to spend less on eating out and focus more on romantic dinner dates at home.

From the abstract:

The survey did prove that love still prevails in all good and bad times. It conquers all. One most important factor in any relationship is transparency. It’s obvious that online daters do not look for financial assistance from their partner but just Love. However, its still important to be honest and open about your financial for maintaining a relationship.
All women like their men to be vocal about money. As women do stand by their men, but they better treat them well. So it doesn’t matter if you are not financially sound, but it does affect the relationship if men don’t pay on their first date. Not paying up on your first date is so not a sign of being a ‘gentleman’. I would suggest avoid women paying on the first date.

Take time to notice if the person you are dating avoids conversations about finances. If they do, be careful, unless you want the title of sugar daddy or sugar mama.
Of course sex is the most important topic to discuss. It’s as important as money. A strong vibe and love can always overpower your tensions in daily life. It definitely gets more importance. To get the one you desire for just casual sex or serious relationship is not difficult. But it’s so necessary to ensures that you go through a reliable source.

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