Guys love challenges.

“Fun is in chase not in the reward.”This is a famous saying written by a “MAN”. Men are simple to understand in comparison to women. Not only men even women agree to this. Yet there are few things women don’t understand. Not every man really means what he says. There are a lot of men who say that they like older women and hate women who play games. But this is not the whole truth. All men love some mystery and some game.

Though men don’t like bitchy women, they like women who are challenging. They like to get things hard way to show their manliness. Many women complain about how their men don’t pay attention to them anymore. There are some others who are upset about not getting any attention from the guy they are interested in. Some of them end up in an endless chase which fetches them nothing except rejection. But there are few who keep their men on their toes and these are the women who really know how to get a man on their knees. The point is, the more you care the more they run away from you.

Men like new things, unusual things. When things come easily on their plate it becomes less valuable. There a lot of women who do things their men would like. This puts a man to ease and makes him lazy. When a woman works on the relationship, a man just sits back and watches. After a point it becomes a dull, boring movie with no twists and turns. Though this is very relaxing and makes a man feel much secured about you, it’s not very exciting for him. He starts looking out for other things which are more interesting than being with you.

Play a little hard. Anything easy would not gain respect. So turn it into a challenge.

From the abstract:

If you chase a man, the man will run away from you. But if you stop and go away from him, he will coming back running to you.
Men expect their women to work on the relationship while they take a back seat and relax. They try to make things come their way easily. But ultimately when men get what they want effortlessly, they don’t really respect it. Since everything is so easy to get it becomes pretty boring for them.

To make a man chase you make them work harder to get you. It should be a tough battle to win. So throw good challenges for them to conquer and you become their prize. Never show a man that you want him to love, to adore and to commit, make him do that by being ignorant. The less available you are, the more his interest elevates in you. For instance after having sex if your man just rushes up to put on his clothes and get going, you start doing the same. Do this a few times and he will get the message.

Challenging a man does not mean running away from their sight. Just act as if you are going away and then be right back. This will make him feel a bit awkward and also a little lonely for that period when you are not around. Also, when you have a crush on a guy and if he calls you don’t ignore the call. Receive the call, talk to the guy and don’t sound too excited. If he asks you out don’t immediately say yes to it. Instead just ask him if he can call back to confirm some time later. Let him remain inquisitive for your answer.

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