We have often heard people say that couples start resembling each other after living together for a few years. Probably it’s the love and chemistry they share that makes them look-alike. But what makes a couple live together for long is definitely not the similarity in looks. Love, understanding and sex between couples help a relationship to stay for long or break after a while.
Sex definitely plays a bigger role. In a relationship couples are bound to go through a lot of misunderstanding about each other. Also the pre-conceived notions they have about each other creates an invisible line between the two. To sort out such misunderstanding, Ian Kerner, author of several books including “She Comes First,” and sex expert Tracey Cox addressed the most common mistakes both women and men make.
According to their observation usually men and women misunderstand a few common reactions before, during and after sex. Women generally don’t understand why men don’t like to cuddle. They think men can have sex anytime, anyplace. They don’t understand how it is possible for men to differentiate so easily between love and sex.
“Women produce lots of oxytocin, a hormone that stimulates a strong emotional connection. As a result, women are more emotionally integrated when it comes to sex. That’s why casual sex and hookups often backfire for lots of women. Guys produce little to no oxytocin, and can easily have sex without any sense of emotional connection. Its sex with no emotional strings attached.”
Men have their own way of looking at it. Men too, make similar mistakes. Men think that women have low sex desire than men. Most men believe that women need more romance not raunchy sex. Men feel that when they are ready for sex, women are ready too.
However, these assumptions are mere assumption. None of these are true.
From the abstract:
Women and men feel the same in certain situations though one is from mars and the other from Venus. They are still human on earth. Women feel that men don’t like to cuddle and they ready for sex any time any place. But they don’t think deeply about the reason behind it. Men do like to cuddle, however, if they are tired and sex is like a stress buster for them and they feel sleepy after that. At times they are also conscious about their physical appearance (just like women) this makes them to quickly wind up after sex and get going. Not all guys like to have sex every time and anywhere. Once a man reaches into his 20’s the pressure mounts in other areas of his life, like career, and he’s as capable of getting distracted by life’s problems.
Women too are misunderstood several times. Women are more aroused by sensation, men are aroused by the thought of sex. If men really nurture women desire they can turn her into a wild porn star in bed. Women can just be as naughty as men are really. All they need to know is to trigger right buttons to see it. So next time you have any such complaints check your AST –www.asurething.com guide.
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